I know how it feels to break up with your ex girlfriend. I’ve been there, and since then I’ve told hundreds of guys how to get their relationships back on track. It’s a painful time that leaves you feeling deeply hurt and almost at times like it’s hard to breathe. If you want to know
how to get back with your ex girlfriend
then read on because we have a very important lesson to learn from the Barreleye fish.
I know what you’re thinking. What is a Barreleye fish and what does that have to do with fixing my relationship? Well, we’re getting to that.
The Barreleye fish is a deep water fish that was discovered of the coast of Japan. What’s really weird about this thing is that it has a transparent head. You can see into it’s head and everything that’s in there, brain, eyes, everything.
I want you to imagine you can see into the head of your girlfriend. But not at her actual brain, I want you to imagine for a moment how she feels about this break up and more importantly how she feels about you?
This is a very important step in how to get your back with your ex girlfriend because you need to understand the problems in your relationship before you can fix them. But wait, we haven’t even got to the best bit yet.
Knowing what’s going on in your ex girlfriends head isn’t enough. Once you’ve figured that out you need to change what’s going on in her head and doing this isn’t actually as hard as you might think.
Here’s an example of something you can do to get back with your ex girlfriend. If she’s ignoring your calls send her an email saying that “something really cool has happened” to you recently. Say that you can’t explain now because everything is a little crazy, but say it reminded you of a specific time you shared together. Thank her for giving you this time to get your head straight and say that it’s been a “real eye opener.”
The first part of the message will arouse her curiosity. She’ll be desperate to know what the “cool” thing you mentioned is. The second part of the message will remind her and give her the feelings of that special time you shared together. She will remember how it was before it got complicated. The last part (the thank you) will freak her out. Thanks for what? She will be going crazy wondering what you mean.
In this one short simple message you will have implanted a ton of loaded thoughts and feelings, and she will be powerless to stop them from growing in her subconscious.
Now, remember the Barreleye fish? The better you are at putting your self into her shoes and working out what her issues with you are, the better you’ll be at thinking of ways to remove them.
I will show you exactly how to get back with your ex girlfriend over at my blog.